Busy weekends = honey to my soul

Hello Monday. How have you been?

 

We had a slam packed weekend, and it was just what my soul needed. Last week was a wonderful week and a rough week, all in the same package. As a community, we experienced the very unexpected losses and funerals of 2 beautiful women. Hunter and I, along with friends, are dealing with the miraculous recovery of a wonderful young girl and trying to be a source of stability that she can lean upon.

 

On the flip side, we experienced wonderful things last week and this past weekend! Between helping a sweet friend move and start her life at a new apartment, to dancing with my husband at a Saturday night gala, to watching Hunter baptize a youth student on Sunday, God reminded me His mercies are new every day.

 

 

 

On this Monday, I'm beyond grateful for those busy weekends. Slow weekends are nice but a jam-packed weekend was just what I needed to place my focus on different things. It's a new week and I cannot wait to experience it!

These are a few of my favorite things

It's Friday and I'm in a chipper mood because duh, it's Friday. Because of said chipper mood, I'm wanting to share all things that are making me smile...

 

one:: This guy. His heart for the Lord, his patience with me, and his passion for people. I just can't get enough of him.

 

 

 

two:: We have been invited to attend a gala fundraiser tomorrow evening for Hunter's alumni and I'm just uber excited to have an excuse to get dolled up!

 

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three:: For those who don't know, I'm a bit of a MoFro lover. Never heard of them? For Hunter's birthday last month, I bought tickets to go see them in concert on Sunday. We're excited to be going with some friends and my awesome FIL!

 

With the crazed madness that's been going around in regards to the release of the scandalous movie 50 Shades of Grey (I'm not even linking this because it already has enough attention), I've read different articles and posts regarding this event. I personally have never read the books (there's more than 1 right??), don't plan on reading the books, and most certainly don't plan on seeing the movie because let's just be honest, I've got a husband that can make me feel a bajillion times more loved and sexy and respected than that loony bird of a man in that book. Elizabeth did a fantastic job summing up the reasons why we should skip out on this movie.

 

Kind of going off of this 50 Shades of Grey tangent, I read a wonderful post this week by my girl Renee about finding your identity in Christ. Ya'll, go read it. My dear friend Sara Beth also wrote a post on being created in God's image... Love this!

 

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I hope each and every one of ya'll have a great weekend! We certainly have a super busy one ahead of us, but full of wonderful things. Feel free to keep up with us and our adventures via Instagram!

 

**Update: Friends, last night Hunter and I received some heartbreaking news. I cannot go into details here at the moment but please please PLEASE be in prayer for a beautiful, young woman.**



Women for the Gospel

Happy Wednesday ya'll! This is coming a little later in the morning than usual but hey, life happens and sometimes you've just got to live it. Hunter and I have been invited to be guest speakers tonight for a youth group so we're very excited about that!

 

A couple weeks ago, I shared an article with ya'll that focuses on the aspect of women's ministry. A friend of mine had shared it with me when I voiced to her my desires to start a women's ministry group. With the details in place, the facebook event created, and the word is out... I wanted to share with ya'll the heart of this ministry.

 

Women's ministry, as of late, hasn't been getting the best of reputations. And honestly, I'm in agreement with many of those nay-sayers. I have noticed that many, not all, but many women's ministry groups are more focused on the social aspect of it all. Getting together to have breakfast, maybe study the Word, gossip about who is doing what seems to be the norm lately. Now like I said, not all of women's ministry groups are like this; if you're ministry group is out in the community and sharing the Gospel with others, then this doesn't necessarily apply to you.

 

With this stigma in mind and my passion for people (specifically women and teenage girls), I wanted to create a women's ministry that focused on 3 things:

 

Love the Lord with all our hearts and intentionally share it with other women in the community.

 

Come together to study the Word and create a safe haven where we can ask each other the hard questions that nobody wants to ask.

 

Do life together.

 

The most important piece of this entire women's ministry is to bring glory to God. If it doesn't do that, then it's a waste of time. Even though we're in "modern times" and women are held to much higher standards than they were several years ago, women still aren't fully regarded as equals in our communities. When you spend time with teenage girls, hear their stories that just absolutely wreck your heart, and find that it's almost considered "normal" because nobody can really do anything about it, then there's a problem.

 

We need to empower the women in our communities. We need to remind them that they are a child of God, created in His image, beautiful in every way, and that they can rise above the discrimination, abuse, and indifferences towards them. They can take this and share it with their families, teach their children how to live and love like Christ, and empower other women around them.

 

THIS. IS. NECESSARY. 

 

Clearly, I have a passion for this. Clearly, God has a passion for all the women in this world. When I mentioned being intentional, I meant we will go spend time with people that not a lot of folks want to spend time with because it's uncomfortable. That means women in prison, young mothers in the pregnancy center, the prostitutes and adult entertainment ladies... You name it. We're loving on them.

 

Friends, I ask that you will pray for this group. We're meeting in a week and a half, and I cannot wait. Pray that we will put the Lord first in everything we say and do. Pray that we will intentionally love each other and others in our communities. Pray that when we do life together and study the Word, it's with open hearts and minds because let's be honest, we all come from different walks of life.

 

If ya'll have any questions at all, please feel free to leave a comment or email me directly. I have so much passion and love for this ministry and rather than joining all those nay-sayers and doing nothing about it, I want to embrace those nay-sayers and change it for the better. As we meet and continue to share the Gospel, I will share some of the experiences to hopefully encourage others to do the same.

Grateful for my babies

Happy Monday friends! I'm still trying to wake up and hoping my coffee kicks in soon, so to keep it simple, I'm joining up with my gal Em for some gratefulness.

 

I'm one of those mommas when it comes to her fur babies. I just love my boys! Even though they tend to drive me crazy more times than not, I do love them. Needless to say, between my husband and dogs, I'm surrounded by boys.

 

Yes, I'm wearing my husband's jacket. What, you do don't that?? #weirdo

 

See, told ya'll I'm keeping it simple today. We were up late last night watching The Walking Dead.... Just OMG. That show keeps me on the edge of my seat (literally) the whole time. Hunter and I've already got our game plan if zombies start strolling around because, ya know, it could happen #sarcasm. Have a good Monday!

 

Oh happy day

It's Friday. 'Nuff said, it's Friday. The first week of February is over and I feel like it's been a whirlwind of craziness. Between family members and friends being diagnosed with cancer or going through surgeries or losing loved ones, friends looking for jobs and going through interviews, and just every day busyness... My prayers have been running high and mighty. Ha!

But I want to focus on the beauty of today and the upcoming weekend plans we have going on. Because, hey, ya never know when today might be your last.

one: Hunter and I are very excited to be stopping by and spending time with our old youth group kids to help them raise money at a fish fry tomorrow. I cannot wait to wrap my arms around some of those kids and just catch up with their lives. Even though we are no longer their youth leaders, we still love them tremendously, think about them daily, and pray for them constantly.

two: We have been very blessed financially in the last couple of months so the fact that we may have to drop some money for Hunter to get his tire fixed (no thanks to a stick) this weekend, surprisingly, doesn't bring me any anxiety. Thank you Lord!

 three: We have been invited by some dear friends to witness the baptism of some youth kids this Sunday! Remember that youth retreat weekend we helped with? We're now getting the opportunity to watch as a couple of these kids publically declare their love for God. Hot dang!

four: I've been slow getting my other DIY project going but I have every intention to get'er done this weekend.

five: Hunting Saturday. That is all.

 

Why I Brought Facebook Back Into My Life

Weird, I know, because I was (and still slightly am) so anti-facebook. I decided early last year to step away from facebook. I was so beyond sick and tired of the negativity of people, the way people would attack each other from behind the comfort of their computers, and just the overall obsession that had/has been created with facebook. For example, I heard many times from different people, "He/She deleted me off of facebook?! OMG!"

 

Seriously?

 

If you are or were this type of person and made these types of comments, don't go and get your panties in a wad just yet and start attacking me from behind the comfort of your computer. I was just as guilty as the next guy when it came to thinking, "What the heck?! Why did you delete me?!" Honestly, it's sad the way we have allowed our relationships to be determined by the simple click of a button.

 

**Yes, I know you can "hide" or "block" things. I would be blocking a lot of things in this case.

 

So you're probably assuming I've lost my ever-loving marbles at this point for even considering jumping back into facebook. Allow me to humor ya'll a bit...

 

 

It all started when I began having thoughts of forming a women's ministry. I'll have another post on this next week because it's entirely too much to talk about in this short paragraph. SO, I've been working on details and ideas for a women's ministry group and I realized that the easiest way for me to contact several women with this idea + setting up the details was probably going to be best done on a social media platform, such as facebook.

 

My instant thought was, "Nope. Not going back into that hell-hole again." I'm mature, I know (sarcasm for those who don't get it).

 

As I was contemplating on what to do, I was also talking to a friend of mine about meeting up for dinner one night. I passed my idea along to her because she is somebody whose opinion I value greatly simply because she has a heart for God. She immediately sent me an article she had read about women's ministry and encouraged me to use facebook. At first, I was hesitant. I bucked the idea and just kept saying, nope. Finally, she said something that really made me stop in my tracks and think. She said that I could use facebook as a platform for good. In fact, her exact words were,

 

"Remember... most things can be used for good!!"

 

Right you are my friend. Right you are. And honestly, this concept can be applied to anything.

 

So I have turned over a new leaf and I am using facebook as a positive platform for not only the Gospel, but just life in general. I want it to serve as a place of encouragement, accountability, and relational means to people. Yes, I have cleaned out my "friends" list a little bit because sometimes we don't need to see curse words constantly displayed across our own feeds. Ya'll are more than welcome to check out both the blog's facebook page and my personal page, and I'm also going to encourage ya'll to join me in this brigade for positive attitudes in the social media realm. I'm not talking just facebook; I'm talking all social medias.

 

I guess after all is said and done, never say never, and never underestimate the power of the Gospel.

Oh so grateful for snakes...

So I'm back on Facebook and I'll explain more later in the week, so there's that. Some of ya'll may have seen my sweet little post about experiencing many firsts with my wonderful and darling husband. So when my darling husband asked me last week if I wanted to partake in the local Rattlesnake Roundup, my answer wasn't just a resounding no. But a hecckkk no. I think my actual response was, "Mmm that sounds like my hell."

 

I don't do snakes. Much like I don't do spiders. He reassured me that we wouldn't be handling the snakes; the wise and crazy fearless snake handlers would be touching them. Literally typing this just makes my skin crawl and my insides quake. Not only are these snakes, they're rattlesnakes. If you aren't familiar with these kinds of snakes, you live under a rock Google them. Lucky for us, rattlesnakes are all too common in this area.

 

So being the good wife, I agreed to go on one condition - I would not touch a snake.

 

Overall, it was a really neat event that I found quite interesting. No, the heavens didn't open up and the Holy Spirit didn't encourage me to become a snake handler because let's be honest, He knows I couldn't handle it. But, I did enjoy learning all about these creatures. I also thoroughly enjoyed stuffing my face with fair food, but don't judge me.

There was one point during the demonstration that the rattlesnake was just not having any of it. So he decided to jump off the table. I kid you not, my SIL and I booked it the heck out of there! It provided good entertainment for the folks around us ha!

 

 

 

Today (and honestly every day), I'm so grateful for the snake handlers that handle those little beasts. Without ya'll, my world would be a dark, slithery place. In fact, ya'll deserve medals and cookies.